macam hukuman maut tu..... xde kena mengena... y do i say so? let's take a step back...
some months back, i wrote a letter to berita harian that says schools shud really stop hiding crimes and misdeeds done by their student and start utk kerjasama dgn polis n masyarakat utk improve belia. tp of course la, sume org pn nk jaga bulu masing2 kn.. sape nk bgtau kt skolah dia ada 2 budak pregnant dlm ms setahun n dll kan.. but this has to stop, really...
rasenye mcm sume ni start kt skolah.. i mean, tbh, bpe rmai sgt parent yg brani nk ckp kt anak2 dia psl different sex? isu ni still taboo la pd parent, so the responsibility grudgingly jatuh kt bahu para guru la.. besides, budak laki starts usha budak pmpuan kt skolah (menengah) n budak pmpuan start minat budak laki kacak kt skolah (rendah) gak.. so nak xnk cekgu2 yg dihormati perlu la terangkn laki sume penipu, jgn pecaya dorg, n pmpuan akan brubah tp perlu sentiasa, sentiasa di hormati n dijaga.. (maybe not the phrasing i used above la. haha)
i always has been a believer of Mahathir. one of his best idea to be was look east policy. although historian mgkin bising kata polisi ni dibuatnya sbb britain kerek dgn timah malaysia time tu, tapi still.... its a gud point.. btw, in looking east, satu point yg kte slu tgk ble tgk cite korea or jepun, xkire dari cite bodo n lucu mcm GTO smpi la drama yg nangez2 tu, kte perhatikn cekgu dia rapat dgn student kn.. kalo xdtg, cekgu dia tepon tnya.. siap ada yearly or biannual visit g datang umah lagi..
kte kt sini, parent (kdg2 bese je parent xpnah dtg pn, anta pnjaga or abg kakak) g skolah setahun skali tnya cekgu anak dia blaja cmna.. cekgu bc report kad, kalo budak tu rajen tnyan jwb soklan dia puji, kalo jenis nakal (mcm aku =p) kena tegur. xde pn cekgu nk ckp budak ni minat dia kt sini, mgkin better kalo digalakkan dia buat cmni cmtu.. or budak ni xde konfiden, mgkin bgus kalo parent puji dia slalu kt umah even bnda simple2 mcm sikat rmbut kemas2 or basuh pggan pas mkn mgkin bule build dia pnya self konfidence... or smtg like dat.. xde pn..
i also recognized yg cekgu Malaysia ni maha la bizinya... rasa PM pn ntah2 xbizi mcm cekgu. nk tnda kertas, nk layan nazir lagi, cekgu disiplin kena bt n jaga rekod disiplin n kejar budak jahat 1 skolah. cekgu sukan plak, bola ke, netball, tenis, or mcm tarian ke, drama, pertandingan kuiz ke hapa, kena prepare budak2 tu utk sume tu lagi, siap kdg2 kena anta sndri plak tu. mcm da xde keje jd cekgu, kena jd driver skali. n pd ms tu of course la budak2 kelas terabai n xde cikgu masuk (yahuuu!!!) except cekgu gantian kalo ada...
lagipun, a VERY big blame shud be placed on the mentaliti of parent skrg.. mcm dorg ada ideologi bodoh yg mngatakn cikgu jg anak kt skolah je, kt umah pndai2 la aku jaga. mslahnya ko xpndai nk jaga.. kalo ditegur kang mrh, trase.. anak pukul budak lain, kena pukul balik, melenting mcm hape. ko xtau setannya anak ko tu kt skolah.. ccet..
baru2 ni ada kes budak mngaku slh buang anak kn? tau bape tahun bdak2 tu? laki tu 18 n pmpuan tu 17.. buat la kira2 sndri, skrg bulan 8. mknanya budak tu da pregnant dr dia awal form 4 lagi.. mungkinkh dia skolah cekgu2 buta yg xsedar dia pregnant? or bile dia ponteng berminggu2 or muntah kt skolah cikgu buat bodo?
i have a very strong (and NOT unreasonable) feeling yang laki dia tu boypren dari kt skolah yg sama lagi.. see? see? sume skolah je dari tadi.. haha.. of course la, tu mmg point aku.. hahaha..
mcm xlama pas surat ku dipublished berita harian, ada brita psl placur budak skolah kt mlaka n polis nk pggil cekgu2 skolah tu utk ambik kterangan. kan da kata? xkan la budak2 placur tu budak dpt straight A kan? tak mustahil sgt je, tp mcm pelik la.. again, xkn la cekgu dia xsaspicious...? rabun kah?
mungkin ke bdak laki tu budak rempit yg mmg notoriously known mmg kuat seks bebas ni? mungkin je.. tp kita xtau kan? mungkin dan mungkin.. kita tak betul2 tau.. kita sibuk sangat nak hukum satu pesalah ni ke satu pesalah next. tp tak plak kte pergi dekati pesalah tu n ambik tau latar blakg dia.. kenapa dia bule terjebak sejauh tu?
alangkah baiknya kalo at 1 stage of his life, ada sum1 intervene and betulkn dia n dia xbuat salah yg akan hantui hidup dia tu?
as a conclusion.. (sbb kakak aku da balik.. lari! xmasak lagi!!) mcm skolah mainkn pranan yang amat, amat penting.. kita sume mcm terlalu jauh dgn skolah.. mcm skolah tu satu entiti berbeza xleh cmpur dgn idup budak.. salah ah.. pndidikan ttg opposite sex patut start kt skolah, bukan ssmata2 ttg beza morfologi dorg je, tp gak personaliti putar laki n demanding pmpuan.. ajar slh zina tu skuat2nya, (tp bukan dengan ganasnya mengajar) n slh lg buang bayi tu.. sekiaaaannn...
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